Ex Boyfriend’s Jewelry for Sale

It was such a blissful relationship at the start.  Every single thing about the relationship screams perfection.  You got along so well and rarely do you have arguments or misunderstandings.  He was so sweet to you.  He remembers every occasion that mattered to you – anniversaries and birthdays especially.  He sends you sweet notes out of the blue.  You get gifts on ordinary days even.

You even got along with his friends.  You got his friends’ loyalty and trust as well.  Even his family adores you.  His parents have even hinted about the M word. His sister likes you and you have gone shopping together.  His younger brother has a secret crush on you and envies his brother for having a girlfriend like you.

Everything was such a bliss that you did not even think that this relationship could end.  But fate was not so good to you that it decided to make a turn towards a different direction.  All of a sudden you are left alone with the broken dreams and promises. You are left with all the pain, misery and confusion.

You just don’t understand how things could end this way.  He just took off not giving you any concrete explanation why. All you remember is that you were talking about what his  mother said about getting married and he went ballistic.  He rambled about so many things that you do not really understand. Then the conversation became an argument that lead to a fight.  Next thing you remember, he’s gone leaving you with good, painful memories and all his gifts that reminds him of you all the time.

As you go through the stuff he gave you, you found a necklace, a bracelet, watch, pair of earrings and a ring. All those came from him.  Now, what do you do with these jewelry?  Of course you can’t bear the idea of wearing it since it will remind you of him and how happy you were together.

Selling these crossed your mind, admit it.  However, it is so unethical to do that.  These are gifts and selling gifts you received is just so low class. Even though these came from your ex, it doesn’t mean that you have to get rid of them by selling them.  You just can’t accept the fact that you’d make money out of these.  It’s like using your ex to earn money.

Here are other things that you can do with these jewelry if you do not want to sell them.

Keep it.

There’s nothing wrong with keeping it.  You are not obliged to get rid of them in the first place.  The only reason why you want to get rid of these is because it brings back memories that are painful to remember.  Keeping it is one of way of showing your respect to your ex that regardless what happened to the two of you, you still spent good times together.

You’ll never know maybe one day you and your ex will get back together.  You’ll never know that one day you will have a reason to wear them again.

Give it back?

Returning gifts may be unethical but it is way better than selling them.  Although, it is certain that your ex will not accept them when you give them back to him, this option is way better than selling.  Since you know that you will not be using it again since it would really be painful to do so, it is just right that you give it back to your ex.

Donate it to charity.

If you do not have the strength to keep it and the courage to give it back to your ex, then you can donate it to charity.  Make the most out of it and at least other people will benefit from it.  Make sure that you inform your ex what you have done with the gifts that he gave you so that he would not get upset in the future.

You can donate it to charity under his name or make it from an anonymous donor. At least you would be helping less fortunate people with the jewelry.  Your ex will definitely understand and will admire you for what you did.